Imposter Syndrome: You're Not Actually Faking It
Let’s talk about imposter syndrome. Spoiler: it doesn’t show up because you’re failing—it shows up because you’re growing.
You know that feeling of faking it and fearing everyone will find out? Yeah, it’s not just you. Even the most successful people deal with this. The bad news? It’ll pop up at the worst times. The good news? You can manage it so it doesn’t mess with your momentum.
Here’s the secret: imposter syndrome shows up when you’re making progress. It’s proof that you’re leveling up.
It often starts with thoughts like “I’m not qualified” or “I don’t belong here.” But here’s the truth: those thoughts mean you’re stepping into new territory. It’s actually a sign you’re pushing yourself.
Recognizing imposter syndrome is key. It doesn’t always scream, “You’re not good enough!” Sometimes it whispers. Maybe you feel like your success is luck, you’re hyper-critical of your own work, or you avoid big opportunities. These are the signs to watch for.
The fix? Reframe it. When you feel uncomfortable, remind yourself it’s because you’re growing. Ditch the myth of perfection—nobody’s perfect, so stop holding yourself to that standard. And keep a list of your wins, big or small, to shut down that imposter voice.
The real secret? Do it anyway. Even when you feel uncertain, take small steps forward. Action builds confidence, and confidence quiets imposter syndrome over time.
Imposter syndrome doesn’t mean you don’t belong. It means you’re learning, growing, and stepping up. So next time it creeps in, remember: you’re not “faking it.” You’re leveling up. Keep going.